Last night, I saw an infomercial of a product that teaches people the basic of online dating success. I thought how people can be so dumb?

Online dating success

My friend, online dating is no other thing than COMMON SENSE! If you use your head on how to be success full in online dating, you’ll make it very nice.

Although you can research by viewing some nice/high profiles of others, how they write, what they write etc.

Here are 6 tips that you should use while taking yourself in this game:

1. It’s all about copywriting – Learn the basics of copywriting. (It’s a vast topic and I’m not gonna teach you this here). Go to the top profiles, see and analyze there words, the way they write. What do you feel when you read their profile, if you know any woman; ask her what she feels about the guy when she views the profile. You get the idea? That’s it!

2. Profile without personal picture SUCKS! – I have seen many profiles without picture; some dumbass guys put the picture of a cartoon character, while some put a picture of celebrities! These type of stuff totally sucks. Put your own pic and make sure you won’t put the pic taken of yours when you just woke up. Put your coolest pic.

3. Don’t go offensive – Some people write in their profiles, they are “sex hungry” stuff and so on, this must NOT be there if you’re serious in Online Dating game. Also don’t use offensive pictures. That’s the key that most people don’t know.

4. Describe and that’s it. – make sure you describe yourself well. Write some jokes in your social network profiles. Your descriptions are really important. Take a lot of time to think & write descriptions. (Write some jokes that are really cool, not some sucker ones or forget the tip of writing jokes)

5. Link baby Link - Link your social network with each other via a blog. – This is the GREATEST tip of all. Make a blog say on blogger.com or wordpress.com or which ever you like. Make sure they are not lacking content. (you can post some thing on it, say about you –you and you) And there, you link all of your social network link like facebook, twitter, dating profile and on and on. This will increase your popularity by over 200 %. And make sure you manage your blog well. Common! It’s not hard.

6. Submit your profile as well as blog to social networking sites like Digg, StumbleUpon etc.

That the key to online dating success.

Women are not driven by logics.

Fact or Confusion?

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Quotes like women are strange, women are dumb, women don’t make any sense are quite popular in the modern culture. But the point is “Are women really dumb or logic less?” The answer may not be that simple. Ofcourse men regard women as “strange” when she calls up and tell you that she can’t come for the date for some lame reason. Men often wonder why? It’s because men generally have no idea what her actual intentions are. Men are often confused by the words of women. So here’s a hint

HINT: Don’t take action
on the basis of her words

Further getting into the point, women test men for various reasons such as

· To testify whether he’s a real man

· To testify how well he can handle the situations

· To testify if he’s not a fake bastard

Another thing is women have completely different perspective than men.

For e.g. A man gets aroused by watching a naked woman on the other hand women are aroused by romanticism

Hope you get the point.

The reason behind people regarding women as “strange” is due to the fact that most of the time women are not able to give any reason or logic for their actions (when she screws you up). It doesn’t mean they don’t have any reason or logic. All the logic is written in her subconscious mind. Women have a Natural defense mechanism against fake bastards and manipulative men. But the problem is, even they don’t realize it and thus ending up revealing no logic for their action. So, remember next time if you feel like calling a woman “strange” then don’t waste times on doing that instead figure out her actual intention.

If you are not able to figure out how to deal with “tests” or how to act when you’ve got a situation. Then subscribe to my free newsletter. There’s a lot of stuff regarding woman in that.

Whoa! Quite sarcastic but somewhat true. Although women are not “objects” still there are various types of women IF defined on personality, needs, likes and dislikes. One woman might love a thing and the other might loathe it. I’ll highlight some noticeable types of women. This will give you a rough sketch about the “women types” although this is not a blueprint.

1) Feminist: a feminist kind of a woman is someone who thinks that men are the source of all problems on earth and would give the first hand when it comes to woman rights. Virtually, it’s impossible to impress them (especially if you try the jerk approach.) generally they are found to be down to earth and sometimes even below it lol. At times they are “ugly bitches” while some are “sexy bitches”

2) Average: Don’t get fooled! They may sound average but they are highest in number. They are not mediocre as the name sounds. I call ‘em average because of their number. They are the most approached type. They are approached by men quite easily as they are so called “average”. Most men are quite afraid of the super hot types so that gives the #1 rank for being approached to the “average” type. The problem with this type is that they show more variation (in terms of likes, dislikes, needs) than any other type. Generally the super hot women have the same needs but this doesn’t really happen in the case of average women. So the only way to know about her is to jump into the battlefield (ofcourse with the right approach.) They are found all over making it easy to find one

3) Cutie: The cutest of all. Generally they are dominated by feminism (not complaining about men although.) Driven by romantic stories they are found to be “easy to manipulate” (hey, try not to be a manipulative bastard.) Most of the time, bitchy attitude is NOT found in them and yeah they are generally quite caring about their partner. This type appears to be submissive.

4) Hottie: The hottest of all (or perhaps it about perspective.) They are found to possess the hottest body but compounded by low level of intelligence. At times they get attracted to the things they don’t have, that’s how we hear the story of a hottie falling for a nerd but only till the time a jerk registers his entry and steals the girl. They are mostly attracted (and found) near jerks/studs

5) Perfect: As the name sounds, she’s the perfect. The perfect blend of beauty + intelligence + characteristics. Undoubtedly they are the rarest. This “type” is the dream of every man but the reality is far away. Firstly they are hard to find. Secondly they are hard to date and finally they are hard to keep (They leave men when they are not satisfied). So, in order to catch your perfect girl you’ve got to become perfect yourself.

6) Incorporated: Not the corporate type of woman but this type is a result of all those personality development and adding certain characteristics to the personality for some advantage. This type incorporates various aspects from the other types thus ending up possessing a mixed characteristic persona. Again there is no pre-plan for this type. Only way to know her is to jump into the battlefield!

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Why are women attracted to jerks/studs?

Attraction and women

Most of the time hot women are found with jerks/studs and even douchebag at times. But the obvious question is why? Why a woman is attracted to jerks/studs instead of a nice guy. And worse than that, a woman is rarely attracted to a nice guy.

To find the answer, we need to go back into the time. Not some years but the time of cave men. You must have seen or heard somewhere that the strongest caveman used to be the head of all. He had ruling on all the women of the tribe. If we look at this head caveman we’ll find some characteristics. He used to be brave, strong and finally THE MAN. Similar thing is found in the animals. The head of the group has the ruling over all the females. We may also called it “survival of the fittest” or better say “women only for the fittest”

So what we conclude here is a formula for attraction i.e.

The head male (strongest + brave + manly)
gets the woman

Thousands years have passed and we’ve come to this modern culture but unfortunately many men have lost the actual manhood (I’m not talking about the sperm count but the characteristics). On the other hand, jerks/studs reflect that same head male. You’ll realize even better if you had faced a childhood bully. So, our old formula works here. Women are attracted to dominance. And that’s the point where our regular nice guy fails or ending up being “just a friend”.

Cruel nature!

Is it so?

Are all jerks/studs born with a destiny to rule women while nice guys are meant to just watch and feel the jealousy?

I don’t think so, obviously there’s a way out to beat the jerks/studs. There’s a little something that attracts women like a magnet. Can’t say whether we had this in the pre-age but it s surely present in the modern age. And if you think it’s about looks or success (or money) then you’re WRONG. I’ve seen some really ugly men dating hot women. Neither they had looks nor did they possess a McLaren

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The difference between a friend and a lover

Let us consider a fictional story (Fictional yet represents the story of many men and women)

Here we’ve got two friends i.e. a man and a woman. Both have been very good friends for years. They used to share their joys and sorrow and always seek for help from each other. They used to take advices for various things. But, in midst of the friendship, the guy started to feel attracted towards the woman. He had love sprouting all over. Although, they knew each other so well yet he was frightened to tell her about his feelings. His love towards the woman started to reflect his attitude, body language and way of speaking. Eventually he told the woman about his feelings. After learning about his feelings the woman had silence for some seconds and then said that she care for the guy and also feels affection but reckon that they should continue as just friends or ‘let’s just be friends’

Frustrated?

That’s the reaction of all men who’ve been through this scenario. They consider where did they go wrong? Always been nice to her, used to care for her, always helped her, and last but not the least love her.

The problem comes here

The emotion stimulated by friendship is AFFECTION

While, emotion stimulated by love is ATTRACTION

If she’s affected towards you it doesn’t mean she attracted too in a way she would date you.

Another point is, if you ask a woman that if a man can just be friend she would answer yes, on the other hand men might not give the same answer.

So, the point is

FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE are TWO DIFFERENT ENTITIES for a woman!

So, there’s a big difference between a friend’s approach and a lover’s approach.  One good example can be considered as story of two friends i.e. guy and a woman, where the guy felt attracted towards the woman but the woman is taken away by another guy making the world in despair for our guy.

It’s because the other men came with a lover’s approach and took away the woman as he had the approach ever needed. So,If you’re interested in a woman and want to date her then you’ve got to spark attraction.

Here’s a hint: If you’re a friend with a woman that means your “THE MAN” personality isn’t reflected.

Another hint: Caring about her, helping her is NOT gonna make you a lover in her perspective. You can save it for later.

Yet another hint: Not being a wimp is not all, there are still a lot of things to do and many areas to concern.